I"ve been talking to this guy for a few days. I have no interest since the first day he asked if I had nice hips. I knew then and there, I was only getting information for the book from that point on. Here is a conversation that transpired today.
R: hey lil lady ~ what are u up 2 ?
J: hey there
i'm at work, what about you
R: i'm chilling
about 2 have some Corn flakes, lol
J: well, good morning!
did you take today off?
R: ha ha ha ~ joy of the self-employed
nope ~ no regular job
J: oh yeah, that's right
R: lost it last year ~ company downsized *sigh* just been working my biz
J: oh, i see
R: ya, just life
so whats good ? when u bringin me them hips ?
J: when i know your last name
R: ha ha ~
Richard Isler ~ and you are?
i aint scurred ~ i aint on now watch lists no where - LOL
lmao
J: crackin yo self up!
R: i have my moments
so what is your last name pretty girl
J: that is my last name! I can't believe you figured it out! most people don't get it on the first try! Jennifer Pretty Girl
R: ah... ok smarty
J: roberts
R: was that so hard?
Geesh, lol
ok so now u know my full name ~ what day ?
J: is that your strange way of asking me out Rich?!
R: i was asking you over ~ was that so strange hunni ? hmmm
J: well yeah, cuz that's not exactly what i'm looking for these days
R: alrighty
J: so you done talking to me?
Lol. Can i ask you a question from a friend perspective?
R: no im here hun
sup ?
J: i don't want to offend you or for you to get defensive, but i want to ask a couple questions just so i know.
if I had said, I would be over tonight, then what?
the begining of a friends with benefits type of thing?
or you just needing some company these days? talk to me about that
R: if you came over tonight that would be nice~ friend with benifits ? hmmm ~ we are both adults if we had sex would be nice, honestly, but not all that i'm about ~ but i am a guy and u are a very attractive lil lady, hopefully we would have something there 2 build on cause i would like one special person in my life in general
mmm as far as just needing company... i'm an attractive guy hunni if i just wanted company i have daily emails from gals that would just like 2 spend time with me...
any other questions ?
J: hmm, well, thank you for that.
i was just thinking that I would probably entertain something like that but only after talking a few times and getting to know you ya know
and i know you are attractive...and thank you for your compliment
So you are looking for a serious relationship and you would see it going that way even after meeting for the first time at your house? Just new to me,that's all
R: i'm not looking for anything ~ makes it easier 2 appreciate when something nice shows up if you dont have all these expectations ~ if we had sex when i saw you it would hopefully mean that we were feeling an attraction for each other... we are adults... whats the difference if we make day one or if we wait 2 weeks ? non in my book ~ we are talking online and getting 2 know each other so not like i met u at the bar and then we got down first time together... people get hung up on shit like that in my opinion ~ if you've dated long enough you know that if all a guy/girl wants is sex they'll just wait you out... period... play the game do the dinners, get the sex and then be gone if thats all he/she wants, so i just keep it real ~ as long as the person i'm with is on the same page with me
J: cool! thank you for your refreshing honesty!
nicely put
R: i'm just me ~ no reason to BS ~ i hate when people play a bunch of games, more then enough people out there not hard 2 find someone that wants the same as you... if i just wanted 2 get laid i wouldn’t be sitting here chatting and gettin 2 know you... not tryin 2 be blunt or anything ~ just being real... i get strange sex offeres and be my baby daddy crap in notes every week - lol... i'm a bit old fashioned in some ways and have this weird thing about actually having 2 be attracted to a know something about the person i sleep with - lol
J: hahahah, that IS old fashioned lol
R: i know right - lol
J: i can see where you're coming from. From my perspective, I wouldn't come to a man's house for the first visit because I'd rather meet in a common area, just for safety sake. For the same reason I wouldn't have a man come to my house without having met him somewhere else first
R: ok ~ i understand ~ i do studio work and i meet people from online at my home regularly because i have a pro-studio i work out of in my home ~ so its no big deal to me i'm used to it ~ but we could meet somewhere for a coffee or something sometime if that’s better 4 you no biggie
JJ
J: That would be great! i'd really like that. I do realize that with your experience, you're used to inviting people over for a bowl of corn flakes and a hug perhaps, that would be the next step. lol
R: yep ~ honestly i dont do much conventional dating but i try 2 be accomodating from time 2 time
J: how kind of you
so... when and where
R: pretty face and nice hips ~ my weakness
ha ha
J: i guess so!
and you haven't even seen the half of it lmao
R: i'm tryin but u wont come over
J: coffee - coffee! Focus!!!
R: blah
lol
brb
And that was the end of the conversation! Let’s go for coffee, but not really. I’d rather you come to my house even though I’ve never met you before or even talked to you on the phone. Stupid ass! I don’t think so!
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